“Maybe that what marriage is. To pretend and pressure ourselves to fit into the image that the other person have, in the name of love.”
“Well, I still believe in an ideal marriage. But yes, fuck the society dogmas, standards, and values of love and marriage. No woman and man should be marry before one understand oneself well. And we all know, to understand ourselves well, we need time. A lot of time being alone.”
“Maybe marriage is just not for everyone.”
“I won't argue with you about that, tho. I love you enough to respect your opinion and decisions, and I trust you enough that you have your own good reasons for them. 🤗”
Maybe the ideal marriage does exist without the marriage itself.